当今社会,人际竞争日益加剧,外向、胆大的人容易在激烈竞争中获得更多机会,而胆小、退缩的人往往会失去机会。因此,家长们都希望自己的孩子胆大些,再胆大些。恬静、羞涩被视为美德的东方传统观念不断受到挑战。那么,孩子胆小、退缩,与父母有什么关系?首先,不能否认遗传的重要作用。说孩子胆大或胆小,有一半是遗传决定的,这话完全有证据。其次,妈妈爸爸的教养方式、本人行为特点、心理健康状态,都会影响到孩子朝胆小或胆大的方向变化。 In today’s society, interpersonal competition is getting worse and extroverted and courageous people are more likely to get more chances in fierce competition, while timid and withdrawn people often lose opportunities. Therefore, parents want their children to be bolder and more courageous. Tranquil, shyness is constantly challenged by the traditional oriental tradition of virtue. So, children timid, withdrawal, and parents have any relationship? First of all, can not deny the important role of genetic. That children are bold or timid, half are genetically determined, these words are completely evidence. Second, the mothers and fathers parenting, my behavior characteristics, mental health status, will affect the child toward the timid or courageous changes.