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欲望是孩子生命的一种内驱力,孩子正是靠着那种强烈的表现欲、占有欲和好奇心来了解世界和开发自己。欲望写着孩子最原始的各种需要。孩子正是通过展示这些原始需要描述着生命的成长轨迹。欲望如水,它的流速既可以推动孩子向前奔跑,成为生命生长的巨大动力、也可能泛滥成灾,成为生命生长的可怕阻力。读懂孩子本能的欲望,并把握各种欲望运动的方向,以及在不同条件下转化的方式,就等于找到一把打开孩子心灵大门的钥匙。
Desire is a driving force of children’s lives, it is by virtue of that children’s strong desire, possessiveness and curiosity to understand the world and develop themselves. Desire reads the child’s most primitive needs. It is through the demonstration of these primitive needs of children to describe the growth path of life. Desire, such as water, its flow can not only promote children to run forward, become a huge impetus to life growth, may also be flooded and become a terrible resistance to the growth of life. Reading the child’s instinctive desire to grasp the direction of various desire movements, and the way to be transformed under different conditions, is equivalent to finding a key to open the child’s spiritual heart.