如果你是一个问题孩子的家长,看到“问题孩子是被家长盯出来的”观点,肯定非常气愤,感到冤屈。请不要着急,先让我们回忆小孩子时学骑自行车的经验。小时侯刚学会骑自行车,歪歪扭扭,唯恐倒了。这时正好看到前面路上有一个石块,小孩子并不想撞上去,但往往是越盯着它看,越会撞上。当骑车经验丰富了,在发现路上有石块时,也能发 If you are the parent of a problem child and see “The problem child is staring out by parents”, I am sure I am very angry and wronged. Please do not worry, let us remember the experience of riding a bicycle when children learn. Gang just learned to ride a bicycle, crooked, lest fell down. At this time just saw a stone in front of the road, children do not want to hit, but often the more staring at it, the more will be hit. When cycling experience, found in the road when there are stones, but also made