我有个美国朋友,我们都叫她戴比,是个儿科医生,也是一个很懂得教养孩子的母亲。一次,我们一起野餐,戴比的二女儿歇若,不知为了什么原因,同另一个孩子闹了起来。她先是找到戴比告状:“妈咪。安娜不让我玩跳绳。”戴比对她说:“亲爱的,去同安娜协商一下。”戴比的话引起了我的注意。让孩子去与另一个孩子“协商一下”,这个说法我觉得挺新鲜。 I have an American friend, and we all call her Debbie, a pediatrician, and a mother who knows how to raise children. Once, we picnicked, Debbie’s second daughter rests, I do not know for what reason, with another child downtown. She first found Debbie’s plea: “Mommy, Anna does not let me play the skipping rope.” Debby said to her: “My dear, go with Anna.” Debbie’s words caught my attention. Let the children to “consult” with another child, I think this statement is very fresh.