作为首先走向社会的中国第一代独生子女——“80后”群体,长期以来备受人们的争议和诘难。从诺丁斯的关怀教育理论来审视,“80后”独生子女在人最关键的品质——关怀上出现了问题。导致这种问题的根源不是别的,是社会大环境,特别是教育;具体看,“遭遇缺乏关心的时代”、“关怀教育被悬置”是造成“80后”独生子女不会接受关心和不会给予关心的主要原因。因此,学会关心应当成为独生子女的应然目标。 As the first generation of only-child children in China after the first move toward society, the “post 80s” group has long been subject to controversy and hardship. From Noddings’ theory of caring education, we examine the issue of “the only child after 80s” in the most crucial quality of humanity - caring. The root cause of this problem is nothing but the social environment, especially education; specifically, “experience a lack of concern about the era ”, “caring education is suspended ” is caused Women will not accept the main reason for concern and will not be given care. Therefore, learning to be concerned about what should be the only child should be the goal.