恋爱中男女一旦发生性行为,往往将女性推到被动的位置。然而关于婚前性行为的调查却发现,有一半以上的女子是自愿的。那么,她们究竟抱着怎样的心态呢? 按照我国传统的道德规范,恋爱期间最亲密的接触通常是接吻、拥抱、依偎、爱抚等,只有在得到法律的许可、步入婚姻殿堂后才能发生性行为。婚前性行为是被社会反对和不允许的。然而,随着社会的发展,传统的道德规范已渐渐失去了制约力,性关系逐渐撕开了遮遮掩掩的面纱,婚前性行为的增多和小年龄化趋势,已成为全社会普遍关 Men and women in love in the event of sexual intercourse, women are often pushed to a passive position. However, surveys of premarital sex found that more than half of the women were voluntary. So, what kind of state of mind they hold? In accordance with our traditional ethics, the closest contact during love is usually kissing, hugging, snuggling, caressing and so on, only with the permission of the law, into the marriage hall after the occurrence of sexual behavior. Premarital sex is social opposition and not allowed. However, with the development of society, the traditional moral norms have gradually lost their ability to regulate. Sexual relations have gradually opened their veil of secrecy. The trend of pre-marital sex and small-scale aging has become the common concern of the whole society