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己所不欲,勿施于人。这是一句古训。当别人的要求与自己的心愿相违时,人们常常想起这句古训,并以此为由推托或拒绝别人的要求。但是,许多为人父母者在对待孩子时,却常常忘记这句古训,往往把一些自己小时候没做过或没做成的事强加给孩子做。孩子刚牙牙学语,父母便要他念儿歌背唐诗;孩子刚完成蹒跚学步,父母便要他学跳舞弹钢琴;孩子刚会看图说话,父母便要他练书法画国画甚至演算小学的加减法。父母们当然是认为这是“为了孩子好”,其实真是难为了孩子。将心比心,父母们不妨自己试试看。就拿背唐诗来说吧。经典的唐诗有三百首,如果父母们陪着孩子一起背,即使只背一百首简单一点的唐诗,父母自己能否坚持把这一百首唐诗全背出来?即使背出来又能否真正理解诗中的含义?说实在话,要背一百首唐诗是很难很难的事!恐怕现在大学中文系的学生也不一定人人能做到吧!拿成人自己也
Do unto others, do not impose on others. This is an old saying. When other people’s demands are contrary to their own wishes, people often think of this old saying and use it as a basis for dodging or rejecting other people’s demands. However, when many parents treat their children, they often forget this old saying and tend to impose on the children something that they did not do or did not do as a child. When the child just finished his toddler, his parents asked him to learn to dance and play the piano. The child just read the picture and his parents asked him to practice calligraphy, calligraphy, and even primary school Addition and Subtraction. Of course, parents think it is “good for their children,” which is really hard for children. Care for the heart, parents may wish to give it a try. Take back poetry for example. There are 300 classic Tang poems. If parents accompany their children back together, even if only one hundred simple Tang poems can be read, can parents insist on completely reclaiming the 100 poems? Understand the meaning of the poem? To tell the truth, it is difficult to back one hundred Tang poetry! I am afraid that now the University of Chinese students are not necessarily everyone can do it! Take adults themselves