笔者通过师范对某学校300名学生的测查及对50名学生日记研究和与同学多次交谈,试图探讨子女在求父母理解过程中的特点,总结一下子女在被误解后的反应。理解对子女的重要性求理解是自我意识觉醒的表现,是社会化的结果。一个民族的素质高低,从自我意识的发展程度可以体现。自我意识并不是与生俱来的,从个体发展的角度上看,它是个 Through the teacher’s examination of 300 students in a school and the study of 50 student diaries and many conversations with their classmates, the author attempts to explore the characteristics of children in the process of seeking parents’ understanding and summarize their children’s misunderstood responses. Comprehension of the importance of children seeking understanding is the manifestation of self-awareness awakening and is the result of socialization. The quality of a nation, from the degree of self-awareness can be reflected. Self-awareness is not inherent, from the perspective of individual development, it is one