这些已经走入或正在走入青春期的孩子并不如他们表现出来的坚强,父母之间关系的好坏依然会对他们有着非常重要的影响,甚至决定着孩子未来感受幸福、把握幸福的能力。众所周知,父母之间的关系会对孩子的早期成长产生很大影响。生活在和谐家庭环境中的儿童通常自信、开朗,而紧张的夫妻关系会让孩子因为缺乏安全感而变得畏缩,或者有暴力倾向。 These children who have entered or are entering adolescence are not as strong as they are. The relationship between parents still has a very important influence on them, and even determines the child’s ability to feel happy and be happy in the future. As we all know, the relationship between parents will have a great impact on children’s early growth. Children living in a harmonious family environment are often confident and cheerful, and stressful relationships can make children feel clumsy or violent about lack of security.