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在孩子学着做或写些什么的时候,有了一点小毛病,父母不要唠叨个没完。否则,其影响是不够好的。而对孩子的作品要是横加挑剔,那就更坏了。孩子的作品来自他那不愿人知的秘密心灵。他把作品给你看,是对你的相当信任,可算是给你的一件真正礼物。你看了以后,如果不是表示欣赏,而是一味挑剔诸如标点符号一类的毛病,那就象撕碎他诚心诚意送给你的礼物一样,该是多么有损他的自尊心,打击他的写作积极性,使他以后再也不愿提笔。
When the child is learning to do or write something, there is a small problem, parents do not nagging endless. Otherwise, the impact is not good enough. And if the child’s work is more demanding, it is even worse. The child’s work comes from his unwilling secret heart. His work to you, is a considerable trust in you, can be regarded as a real gift to you. If you look at it later, if you are not appreciating but blindly picking on problems such as punctuation marks, it is just like tearing up the gift he gave you sincerely, how detrimental his self-esteem and his writing Enthusiasm, so that he will not be willing to pick up the pen.