婚姻生活中的冲突,原因常常是错综复杂的,两个具有不同的亚文化背景、不同性格的人走到一起来,要朝夕相处,共同承担生活的责任,实属不易。夫妻一方面是最亲密的人,他们相濡以沫,同舟共济;可另一方面也可能成为最大的敌人,他们恶语相加,心存芥蒂,甚至有人戏称夫妻关系为“亲密的敌人”。为了提高婚姻的质量,我们必须了解婚姻关系中一些基本的原理,像任何人际关系一样,婚姻关系也有它 The conflicts in marriage are often complicated. The two have different subcultures. It is not easy for people of different personalities to come together, to live day by day or night, and share the responsibility of living together. Couples, on the one hand, are the most intimate ones, and they enjoy each other’s support and help each other. On the other hand, they may also become the biggest enemy. They add up to bad language and have feelings of grudges. Some even call the relationship between husband and wife “the intimate enemy.” In order to improve the quality of marriage, we must understand some of the basic principles of marriage, as any human relations, marriage also has it