讲人情、重人情,是中国人约定俗成的待人接物的规范和准则。作为一种生活理念,人情在人们的社会生活中发挥着十分重要的作用。它决定着人们与谁交往、以何种方式交往以及维持什么样的关系。然而,经过世世代代的积淀,如今的人情似乎走了样,变了味。这种异化的人情表现在两个方面 It is the norms and norms of Chinese people’s common practice of treating others with human feelings and human rights. As a philosophy of life, human beings play a very important role in people’s social life. It determines who people interact with, how to interact and what kind of relationship. However, after the accumulation of generations, today’s human feelings seem to have gone, changed flavor. This alienation of human performance in two aspects