中年男性一般是指年龄界限为35～55岁之间的一组特殊人群。笔者在与他们交谈接触中感到,由于特定的历史环境,使这部分人既具有优秀的传统思想意识,即:对社会、家庭负有强烈的责任感,同时又夹杂着现代思潮中如“别活得太累,图点安逸”的思想。面对社会经济大潮的冲击、竞争、快节奏的环境以及来自家庭生活中的困扰,使他们与同年龄的女性相比较,在某种程 Middle-aged men generally refers to a group of special age group of 35 to 55 years old. In the process of talking with them, the author felt that due to the specific historical environment, this part of people not only has the excellent traditional ideology, namely: he has a strong sense of responsibility to the society and the family, but also mixed with modern thoughts such as “Do not live Too tired, map point of ease ”thought. In the face of the impact of social and economic tide, competition, fast-paced environment and distress from family life, compared with women of the same age,