在国内我们经常看到,许多大人把孩子当成“宠物”来逗乐。有的大人喜欢捏捏小孩的脸蛋,夸赞他好可爱;有的大人喜欢让孩子在别人面前表演节目,孩子不愿意就觉得很丢面子。我的侄女也会被大人要求表演节目,她的性格相对内敛,并不是一个爱表现的孩子,在生人面前总会表现得非常不自在。因此,只有心情好的时候,她会答应表演节目,否则就会拒绝。看到她说“不”的时候,我很开心,这一点她比我强。来到美国,我发现,幼儿园很注重保护幼儿的人 We often see in the country, many adults to children as “pet ” to amused. Some adults like to pinch the child’s face, praise him so cute; some adults like to let children show in front of others, children do not want to feel very lost face. My niece will also be asked to perform performances by an adult. Her character is relatively restrained. She is not a child who loves to behave. She always behaves very uncomfortably in front of strangers. Therefore, she will promise to show only if she is in good mood or she will refuse. When I saw her saying “no”, I was very happy, and she was stronger than me. Came to the United States, I found that kindergarten is very focused on protecting young children