我在教科院心理辅导室工作。一天,一位家长忧心忡忡地前来对我诉说,早上在为儿子整理床铺时,竟然在儿子枕头下面发现一本《新婚必读》,并看见褥单上“画了地图”(精液的痕迹)。他又说:“怪不得儿子近来神思恍惚,成绩下降,原来脑子里尽想些七荤八素的东西,你看咋办?”其实,孩子到了一定的年龄,思慕异性,渴望过“性瘾”是符合生理、心理发展规律的。有性冲动完全正常,没有性冲动反而不正常。我国古人云:“饮食男女,人之大欲。”“食不可绝,色不可缺。绝则无以为生,缺则无以为继。”西方的歌德有句名言:“哪个英俊少年不多情,哪个妙龄少女不怀春。”再说,近年来,由于人们生活条件的改善,孩子们的 I work in the Academy Psychological Counseling Room. One day a parent came to me with a worried expression and said that in the morning when he was arranging beds for his son, he even found a “new marriage must read” under his son’s pillow and saw a “painted map” on the sheet (the traces of semen) . He also said: “No wonder my son recently trance, performance decline, the original mind to think of some seven dirty stuff eight things, you see supposed?” In fact, children to a certain age, admire the opposite sex, eager to have “sexual addiction” Is consistent with the laws of physical and mental development. Sexual impulses completely normal, but not sexual impulses but not normal. Our ancients said: “The diet of men and women, people’s lust.” “Food must be indispensable, indispensable. Absolutely unaffordable, lack of unsustainable.” Western Goethe has a famous saying: “Which handsome boy is not affectionate, Which young girl does not have a lot of spring. ”In addition, in recent years, due to the improvement of people’s living conditions, the children’s