我国是礼仪之邦,自古讲究礼尚往来。然而,受礼却成为当今领导干部一大难事。受之,有不廉之嫌;拒之,有绝情之弊。真是受也难,拒也难。近阅史籍,发现古代贤臣良相受礼有三法,可供借鉴。 一曰受而献之。五代十国时期,周世宗派遣阀门使曹彬去给吴越国送兵器。事情办完后,曹彬急忙返回,没有接受吴越王赠送的礼物。可是,吴越人驾着快船追上了曹彬,硬要把礼物交给他。曹彬三番五次推脱不掉,便说:“我如果再不接受这些礼物, Our country is a state of ceremonies, since ancient times pay attention to reciprocity. However, receiving gifts has become a major difficulty for leading cadres today. By that, there are cheap too suspect; refuse, there are unfeigned abuses. It is difficult to accept, refusal is difficult. Recently read historical records, found the ancient Xian-hyun good courtesy of three methods for reference. One said by the offer. Five Dynasties and Ten Kingdoms period, Zhou Shizong sent the valve so Cao Bin go to Wu Yueguo sent weapons. When things finished, Cao Bin hurried back, did not accept the gift presented by Wu Yue. However, Wu Yue catch a Clippers overtake Cao Bin, insisted that the gift to him. Over and over again, Cao Bin could not afford to shirk, saying: "If I do not accept these gifts again,