学校是社会的一部分,它不可避免地具有许多消极面,如差生的座位被老师安排在边上或后面; 成绩和表现都很出色却没被评为“优秀学生“;指出老师的错误被老师责骂;学校不合理的收费等。这些看来是小事,对于孩子来说都是大事,有的甚至压得孩子喘不过气来。如果孩子不会正确面对这些,可能不仅影响学习,还会造成身心伤害。一、让孩子退一步想,减轻心理压力,走出心灵的阴影任何事情,我们从不同的角度来思考它,可能会有完全不同的结果。孩子心情愉快,是孩子健康成长所必须的。如果他们总被生活中的烦恼困扰,总觉得同学或者老师不喜欢他,他怎么高兴得起来呢?所以, School is a part of society, it inevitably has many negative aspects, such as poor students arranged by the teacher at the edge or behind; performance and performance are excellent but not been rated as “outstanding students”; pointed out that the teacher’s mistakes were teachers Scolding; school fees and so on unreasonable. These appear to be small things, for the children are a major event, and some even suppressed the child out of breath. If the child does not correctly face this, may not only affect learning, but also cause physical and psychological damage. First, let the children take a step back, reduce psychological stress, out of the shadows of the soul of anything, we think about it from different angles, there may be completely different results. Children happy, is necessary for the healthy growth of children. If they are always troubled by the troubles in their life and always feel that students or teachers do not like him, how happy he is? Therefore,