竞争充满着美国整个社会乃至每一个家庭。人人凭本事吃饭,没有人身依附,“靠自己的双手挣钱”成为孩子们的自觉行为,勤奋、节俭蔚然成风。为了让孩子长大后能够适应激烈竞争的社会并成为强者,几乎每一位家长都不溺爱儿女,从小就培养他们独立生存的能力。美国人在教育、培养孩子 The competition is full of the entire American society and every family. All people eat by virtue of their own affairs, no personal attachment, “earn money by their own hands” as the children’s conscious behavior, diligence, thrift become common practice. In order to make children grow up to adapt to the highly competitive society and become strong, almost every parent do not spoil their children, from an early age to develop their ability to survive independently. Americans are educating and raising children