一、班主任面临的困惑作为当了近三十年的初中班主任,随着教育新形势发展的需要,家长与学生呈现出的新特点、与渐行渐老的年龄因素带来的观念更新的节奏的不合拍,管理中凸显的矛盾日趋渐多;再加上农村留守儿童、离弃家庭增多,农村初中的班主任工作,确实有着城里班主任难以预见的困惑。现在的家长大多数希望班主任加强管教,以使自己的孩子成才。但有不少的家长则奉行“我的孩子,绝对不能吃亏”的原则,喜欢给学生灌输“当 First, the confusion faced by the class teacher As the junior high school class teacher for nearly thirty years, with the new situation of education needs, parents and students showed new features, and the rhythm of the concepts brought by the aging age factors In addition, the number of left-behind children in rural areas and the abandonment of families have increased. The teacher work in rural junior high schools does indeed have the unimaginable confusion of the head teachers in the cities. Most parents nowadays want the teacher in charge to step up discipline so that his children can succeed. However, many parents are pursuing the principle of ”my child can never lose" and like to indoctrinate students