忠告:目光不是激光,不伤人的。案例一女,30岁,某公司职员。我上初三的时候有一个男同桌,长得比较帅。在我生活的那个年代和那个小城,人们的思想都比较封闭,当我发现自己对他有好感时,特别恐惧,觉得自己离经叛道。于是,我极力掩饰自己的内心世界,不再和他说话。其实那根本没用,反倒让自己每天都活在盼望和害怕中,盼望看到他 Advice: The eye is not a laser, does not hurt people. Case a female, 30 years old, a company staff. When I was on the third day there was a guy at the same table, looking handsome. At that time in my life and that little town, people’s thoughts were rather closed. When I found myself in favor of him, I was especially scared and felt that I was going astral. So, I strongly hide my inner world, no longer speak to him. In fact, it is useless, but on the contrary daily life in hope and fear, hoping to see him