沟通是一门科学,更是一门艺术。只有与子女有着良好的沟通,家长才能更加科学有效地对子女实施教育。与子女沟通,听比说更加地重要。倾听可以促进交流、促进理解。倾听是一种教育的力量,是父母接纳、尊重和理解子女具体体现。心理距离是人与人之间在心理上的疏远与亲近,子女对于父母的依恋是其社会化过程中的不可缺少的环节,是子女健康成长的必须,父母与子女在沟通的过程中在心理上要保持适当的距离,尊重子女心理上的“个人空间”。 Communication is a science, it is an art. Only with good communication with their children can parents educate their children more scientifically and effectively. Communication with children is even more important than listening. Listening can promote communication and promote understanding. Listening is a power of education, a concrete manifestation of how parents accept, respect, and understand their children. Psychological distance is a psychological alienation and closeness between people. Children’s attachment to parents is an indispensable link in their socialization process. They are necessary for their children’s healthy growth. When parents and children communicate in the process of being psychologically On the need to maintain an appropriate distance, respect their children’s psychological “personal space ”.