每个小宝宝都有属于自己的社交圈,在这个小世界里,会发生很多很多磕磕绊绊的事情。比如,小朋友们为了抢玩具,打起了架;自己的宝贝太内向,被别的小朋友排挤!孩子总喜欢随大流,跟着别人玩,一点“领导”能力都没有;孩子在幼儿园,遇到了不顺心的事……这些事情都会让父母莫名地焦虑,不知所措。我们常常忘了,孩子天生就有自己解决问题的能力。很多时候,当孩子遭遇到社交困难,父母需要小心判断什么是合理必要的帮助、什么是想当然的瞎操心以及过分地对孩子行为的控制。也就是说,父母对孩子的“社交行为”不能完 Each baby has its own social circle, in this small world, there will be many, many stumbling things. For example, the children in order to grab the toy, playing the frame; his baby is too introverted, being squeezed by other children! Children always like to follow the crowd, followed by others to play, that “leadership ” abilities; children in kindergarten, Encountered something that does not go smoothly ... These things will make parents inexplicably anxious, overwhelmed. We often forget that children are born with their own ability to solve problems. Often times, when a child is experiencing social difficulties, parents need to be careful about what is reasonably necessary to help, what is taken for granted, and over-control of the child’s behavior. In other words, parents can not end their child’s “social behavior.”