一位母亲听到家里的猫在痛苦号叫。她知道该去找谁——她去找她儿子麦克。“不要拉猫的尾巴,麦克!”她大声她斥责。“我没有拉它的尾巴,”她儿子回嘴,“我只是站在它旁边。是它自己在拉。”当然,麦克跟我们没有任何不同。通常情况下,我们遇到问题时,首先想到的就是要责怪某人或某事。这是猫的错,或者,这是学校的错,或者,这是我父母的错。 A mother heard the cat at home crying in pain. She knows who to look for - she goes to her son Mike. “Do not pull the tail of the cat, Mike!” She shouted loudly at her. “I did not pull its tail, ” Her son said, “I just stood next to it. It is pulling in. ” Of course, Mike and we are no different. Often, the first thing we think of when we run into problems is to blame someone or something. This is the cat’s fault, or it’s the school’s fault, or it’s my parents’s fault.