曾有人问我如何处理人际关系,我的回答是:尊重他人,亲疏随缘。这个回答基本上概括了我对待友谊的态度。人在世上是不能没有朋友的。不论天才,还是普通人,没有朋友都会感到孤单和不幸。事实上,绝大多数人也都会有自己的或大或小的朋友圈子。如果一个人活了一辈子连一个朋友也没有,那么,他很可能怪僻得离谱,使得人人只好敬而远之,或者坏得离谱,以至于人人侧目。不过,一个人又不可能有许多朋友。所谓朋友遍天下,不是一种诗意的夸张,便是一种浅薄的自负。热衷于社交的人往往自诩朋友众多,其实他们心里 Someone once asked me how to deal with relationships, my answer is: respect for others, pro-Shu revel. This answer basically summarizes my attitude toward friendship. People can not live without friends. Whether genius or ordinary people, no friend will feel lonely and unlucky. In fact, most people also have their own circle of friends, big or small. If a man is living a lifetime without even a friend, then he is very likely to be out of line so that everyone has to stay alone or be so outrageous that everyone looks away. However, a person can not have many friends. The so-called friends all over the world, not a poetic exaggeration, it is a shallow conceit. People who are passionate about socializing are often self-interested friends, in fact, their heart