经常听人说起那些好运气的人,不大动干戈,不费尽心思,竟然能在找对象、单位分房、评职称、留学乃到于工作事业的方方面面、大大小小,一顺百顺,应有尽有,好像世界上的好事都排好队专等着他。把这仅仅归为运气?我看未必。有幸接触其中一二,我突然觉得他们身上有一种……类似水的东西。水是一种非常有性格的东西。滋润万物而不语,甘于卑下而无怨,蓄柔守弱,却能顺自然之势,利万物之用而不露声色。有水一样性格的人,外表大都柔弱、谦和,为人处事顺 People who often hear people talking about good luck do not bother to go about their work and do their best. They can find objects, share houses, evaluate titles, study abroad, and work in all aspects of their work. Everything, as if all the good things in the world were lined up for him. Is this just a matter of luck? I don’t think so. Fortunate enough to contact one or two of them, I suddenly felt that they had something...like water. Water is a very personal thing. Nothing can moisten all things, be willing to be humble and unrestrained, keep soft and weak, but it can follow the trend of nature, and use everything to make it untouched. People with water-like personality, most of them are weak and humble, and they are doing things smoothly.