“妈妈,那里的小朋友我一个也不认识,我该和谁说话?”有一天你的孩子也许会这样问你,而这个问题后面的意思是,你该教我一些最基本的社交礼仪了。 不管你的孩子在家的把戏多么逗人,总有一天,并且这一天比你预想的时间要早,人们会用一些规范来评价他们的行为,会对一些行为提出严厉的批评。而做父母的却很容易忽视这点,甚至轻率地认为不必对小孩子太过认真。这样的父母对孩子是不负责任的,他们意识不到这样下去他们的孩子早晚有一天会当众大出洋相,更不懂得礼仪训练要在很小的时候开始。 “Mom, where I do not know a child, who should I speak with?” One day your child may ask you this question, and the meaning behind this question is that you should teach me some of the most basic social etiquette. No matter how funny your kid’s home play is, one day, and earlier than you expected, people use some norms to rate their behavior and harshly criticize some behaviors. Parents are very easy to overlook this point, and even thoughtlessly think that children do not have to be too serious. Such parents are irresponsible to their children, and they do not realize that going on like this would mean that their children will one day be publicized in large numbers, even less eager to start etiquette training at a young age.