孩子不听话,不一定都是任性的表现。比如,婴幼儿因注意稳定性差而不能按大人的吩咐长时间从事一种活动,他们往往受新异刺激的吸引而“见异思迁”。这种表现不能看作是任性,而是儿童的一种心理年龄特征。儿童由于大脑发育尚不完善,脑的兴奋和抑制功能都比较差,他们很难长时间从事一种活动,而显得“没有长性”。 Children are not obedient, not necessarily self-willed performance. For example, infants and young children due to poor stability and can not be adults at the command of a long time engaged in an activity, they are often attracted by new stimuli and This performance can not be seen as self-willed, but as a psychological child’s age characteristics. Children due to brain development is not perfect, the brain’s excitement and inhibition are relatively poor, they are very difficult to engage in an activity for a long time, it appears “no long ”.