常常听到一些家长反映,孩子只能在顺利的环境中生活,稍稍碰到困难,哪怕是小小的挫折,就会束手无策。曾有一位初中生未被直升高中,于是把自己关在小屋内不思茶饭、伤心落泪,认为无脸见人,并对参加中考失去了信心……最后不得不在母亲陪同下来心理咨询。显然,这位同学的耐挫力较差,承受不住压力而产生了不良情绪。 It is often heard that some parents report that children can only live in a smooth environment with little difficulty and even helpless little setbacks. There was a junior high school student who had not been straight into high school, so he shut himself up in the hut without thinking of tea, sad tears, that no face to face people, and to participate in senior high school entrance examination has lost confidence ... Finally had to accompany the mother’s psychological counseling. Obviously, the student’s frustration is poor, unable to withstand the pressure and the resulting negative emotions.