彩礼作为一些地区保留至今的风俗,因索取彩礼导致的纠纷,有的造成情侣分道扬镳,有的甚至酿成婚前悲剧。北京海淀法院最近通过两起因彩礼引起诉讼的案例,提示市民自觉摒弃旧习俗,不要让彩礼成为婚姻的绊脚石。案例一:20万彩礼断送一条命阿辉与小凤到了谈婚论嫁的年龄。小凤父母提出,把女儿养这么大不容易,要求男方家出20万元彩礼。但阿辉父母年迈、家庭困难,根本拿不出这笔钱。小凤说,按照她家乡的习俗,凡婚嫁大 As a custom preserved in some regions, the bride price disputes over the bride price may lead to divorce. Some even lead to premarital tragedies. Beijing Haidian Court recently passed two cases of litigation due to bridewealth, reminding citizens to abandon the old custom consciously and not to make the bride price a stumbling block to marriage. Case one: 200,000 bridegroom ruin a fat wife and married to the age of marriage. Xiaofeng parents proposed to raise his daughter so hard, asked the man’s family 200,000 yuan bride price. However, Ah Hui parents are elderly and have family difficulties and can not afford the money. Xiaofeng said that in accordance with her hometown customs, where marriage is large