一位美国学者,为弄清孩子对自己父母究竟有些什么要求,他走访了20多个国家,对数以万计的儿童进行了一次大规模调查。调查结果表明,家庭是否和谐和温暖,特别是父母的表率作用如何,对孩子的心理健康及智力发育起着重要作用。他总结出各国儿童对自己父母的最重要的十条要求是: 1、孩子在场时,不要吵架;2、对孩子要一视同仁;3、任何时候都不能对孩子失信或撒谎,说话要算 An American scholar, in an effort to find out exactly what the child asked his parents, visited more than 20 countries and conducted a large-scale survey of tens of thousands of children. The survey results show that whether the family is harmonious and warm, especially the role of parents, plays an important role in children’s mental health and intellectual development. He concluded that the most important 10 requirements for children of all countries over their parents are: 1. Do not quarrel if children are present; 2. Do not treat their children equally; 3. They must not lose or lose faith in their children or talk at any time