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一名17岁的男生,到心理咨询室来了三次,才将他的故事讲完整——看得出,一开始他有着太多的顾忌,使他难以清晰地表述他所经历的母子关系。母亲生了他,无微不至地照顾了他17年,母亲希望在将来、在感情上也可以如从前一样依赖他;忽一日,他不想承受这种依恋了,他觉得母亲对他的依恋与期待,变成一张密不透风的网,勒紧了他,让他无处可逃,“挣脱”的欲望就在那一刹那蓬蓬勃勃滋生,他不想再做母亲的“漂亮乖仔”了,温馨甜腻的母子关系,就在这一刻剑拔弩张起来……他事实上很内疚,检讨自己对母亲是否过于残酷;他不断地自问:我是否是一个忘恩负义的人?
A 17-year-old boy came to the counseling room three times to complete his story - I can see that from the beginning he had too much scruples that made it difficult for him to clearly state the mother-child relationship he had undergone. The mother gave birth to him and meticulously took care of him for 17 years. Her mother hoped that she could rely on him in the future as emotionally as before. On the other hand, he did not want to endure such attachment. He felt his mother’s attachment and expectation to him Into an awe-inspiring net, tightened him, let him nowhere to escape, “break free” desire to flourish at that moment, he did not want to do the mother’s “pretty good boy” Warm and greasy mother-daughter relationship at this moment is rattled up ... He is in fact very guilty, reviewing whether he is too cruel to his mother; he kept asking himself: Am I an ungrateful person?