在我国,由于“男主外、女主内”等观念的影响,教育孩子常被视为母亲的分内事,而父亲却往往以工作忙、没时间等理由推脱对孩子的教育。父亲的教育缺位对孩子的成长不利,很可能会在孩子性格、智力、情感、体格等的发展中造成一定的缺陷,特别是男孩,他们往往会比双亲都关爱的孩子更加胆小,做事更犹豫,兴趣和游戏都带有更多的女性模式。家庭教育中父亲的参与不仅能给家庭生活带来更多的欢乐与和谐,还能给孩子施加母亲所不能给予的男性影响。那么要成为一个好父亲,应怎么做呢? In our country, because of the influence of “male leader and female leader”, the education of children is often regarded as the internal affairs of the mother. However, the father tends to shirk his education about the children with his busy schedule and lack of time. The absence of a father’s education is unfavorable to children’s growth and may cause some defects in the development of a child’s personality, intelligence, emotions and physique. Especially for boys, they tend to be more timid and behave more than their cousins More hesitant, hobbies and games are more female models. The involvement of the father in family education not only brings more joy and harmony to family life, but also imposes on the child the male influence that the mother can not give. So to be a good father, how to do it?