即使夫妻感情很好的家庭,也存在着玩笑式的对孩子感情的争夺。尤其是母亲们,普遍比她们的丈夫更喜欢孩子的依恋和缠绕,更喜欢孩子用初谙世事的语言说出对母亲的感情偏向。孩子环抱着母亲的脖子,带着人之初最鲜活的奶音,母亲也就放下手中的一切来应和他。常听到年轻的妈妈满脸骄傲地报怨道:我儿子自小粘我,跟他爸爸倒挺敬而远之。星期天也不跟爸爸回爷爷家,只跟外婆和姨妈们亲。孩子的恋母情结受到母亲有意识的 Even if the husband and wife have a good relationship with their family, there is also a joke-like struggle for their children’s feelings. Mothers, in particular, generally prefer children’s attachment and entanglement to their husbands and prefer children to express their feelings toward mothers in a naive language. Children surrounded the mother’s neck, with people’s most vivid milk sounds, the mother will put down everything in his hands to deal with him. Often hear the young mother proudly complained: my son childhood stick me, with his father down quite respect. Sunday is not back to my grandfather with my father, only with grandma and aunt. The child’s Oedipus complex is conscious of the mother