自恋者不仅自我陶醉,自傲,自我加冕并很有创造性,他们也很有魅力。研究表明,我们很奇怪地被他们的自我为中心的特性,他们的主导性,他们的敌意,他们的敏锐的觉察力和他们的绝望所吸引,至少会被吸引一小会儿。如今,心理学家也对自恋者很感兴趣。因为他们想知道为什么尽管我们在一定程度上认识到了自恋者的行为不正常,但我们还是喜欢他们,还有就是因为自恋者身上包含了很多矛盾的特点。 Narcissists are not only self-enchanting, proud, self-coronating and creative, they are also very attractive. Research shows that we are at least attracted to our self-centered characteristics, their dominance, their hostility, their keen awareness and their desperation, for at least a brief moment. Psychologists are also very interested in narcissists today. Because they want to know why we like them even though we recognize that narcissists behave differently to some extent, and because Narcissists have so many contradictory features.