“我结婚几年了,一直在家里 照顾孩子。生活应该说是幸福的, 就是今年快七十的婆婆让我特别 伤心。刚结婚那会儿,我想努力做 一个好儿媳,处处挺体谅老人,吃 的、穿的,经常给老人买……可 是,后来婆婆使我感到特别特别 地伤心。婆婆留给我的记忆中,几 乎没有美好的东西,都是伤心的 往事。您说,我以后应该怎么对待 她呢?” 来到心理咨询室的少妇,这 样开始她的诉说。我请她提供“证 据”--心理咨询必须了解具体 “I was married for a few years, has been at home to take care of children .Life should be said to be happy, this year’s seventy-year-old mother made me particularly sad. Just married, I would like to work hard to be a good daughter, always very considerate Old man, eat, wear, often buy for the elderly ... However, later my mother-in-law made me feel particularly sad.Mother my mother left me in the memory, there is almost no good things are sad events.You say, I How should I treat her later? ”The young woman who came to the counseling room started her speech. I asked her to provide “Evidence” - Psychological counseling must be specific