我见过的夫妻,结婚超过十年依然恩爱和谐的并不多。而真正做到的,基本都有个共同点:发自内心地彼此尊重。比如我的前同事荟。有天中午我俩逛街,荟给老公选了件T恤,款式价格都问好后,她给老公打电话,说:“我给你看上件T恤,有深蓝色和浅灰色两款,深蓝色不显肚子,但是不如浅灰色看着有品,你想要哪个颜色?”她老公说,“灰色吧。”荟说:“好,还有,我妈晚上去咱家,你今天能早点儿回来一起吃饭吗?”那边说:“有个小应酬,我推了吧。”荟又说了两件事,都是征询老公意见的。挂掉电话,她跟我说,她老公上午一般都忙,中午又要睡觉,现在正好是午饭时间,比较方便,所以事情都攒到这个 I have seen couples, married more than a decade still loving harmony is not much. What you really do, basically, has one thing in common: respect each other sincerely. For example, my ex colleague Hui. One day at noon we are shopping, Hui to husband selected a piece of T-shirt, after the style prices are good, she called her husband and said: “I’ll show you a piece of T-shirt, dark blue and light gray two, Dark blue is not significant belly, but not as good as light gray looking goods, which color do you want? ”Her husband said, “ gray bar. ”Hui said: “ Well, my mother goes to our house at night Can you come back to eat together earlier today? ”“ There said: ”There is a small entertainment, I pushed it." Hui also said two things, are consulted her husband’s opinion. Hanging the phone, she told me that her husband usually busy in the morning, noon and sleep, and now it is lunch time, more convenient, so things are saved to this