指责、自责和负责是人们对社交责任的三种不同的态度。所以称之为责任三境界。境界不同,人际交往的效果也大不一样。指责往往自食其果以前,小张和小刘恋爱三个多月,一帆风顺,就因几句话闹翻了,几经说和,二人才决定重新相处。要说几句话也没什么,况且已经过去,谁知小张偏爱钻牛角尖儿,哪壶不开提哪壶:“你本来给我的印象挺好的。那天,”他指责小刘说:“你实在不该那么说我妈……”一语未了小刘道:“你又是怎么 Accusation, blame and responsibility are three different attitudes toward social responsibility. So called the three realm of responsibility. Different realm, the effect of interpersonal communication is also quite different. Before accusations tend to have their own way of eating past, Zhang and Liu love more than three months, smooth sailing, due to a few words fall out, after several said, two decided to get along again. It is nothing to say a few words, Moreover, in the past, who knows Zhang favorite corner, which pot does not open mention pot: “You had to give me a good impression.” That day, “he accused Liu said:” You Really should not say my mother ... ... “a small Liu said:” how are you again