最近看了《幼儿教育》杂志“星月书屋”栏目上的介绍后,我阅读了黄全愚博士的《玩的教育在美国》,感触颇深。书的开始就将中美孩子的玩作了比较,从中美孩子所享受的物质条件、拥有的玩具、玩的游戏形式来看,几乎已看不出有什么差异;但细细一想,其中的区别却很大,最大的差异可能就在于:一个是“有多少时间玩”;另一个是“怎么玩”。中国孩子玩什么、怎么玩,很少能摆脱家长、老师的控制,什么可以玩,什么不可以玩,玩到什么程度,玩到什么时间,都有明确的规定。而美国的孩子拥有更宽松、更自由的生长环境,玩得更像是“玩”,玩得更像回事,用中国话说:“玩出了圈。”读到此处,我不由得想起了上次和女儿去玩沙的情景。那天,我和丈夫带着不满三周岁的女儿玫玫拎着工具来到公园里玩沙。公园里虽然有许多大人、孩子在散步,但偌大的沙坑却空无一人。女儿追不及待地脱掉鞋子,光着小脚丫,跑进了沙坑,一边玩一边喊:“妈妈快来,我俩一起玩吧!”听到女儿欢快的叫喊声,我也赶紧脱掉鞋袜,和她一起疯玩起来。我先用纸杯装满了沙,然后倒扣下来,做成了一个圆柱形的小沙堡。玫玫看到后,抢着也要做沙堡,但她做了两次都没有成功,做好的沙堡很快就倒塌了一半。 After reading the introduction of “Starry Night Bookstore” in “Early Childhood Education” magazine recently, I read Dr Wong Quan-yu’s “Education for Education in the United States”. The beginning of the book will be compared with the children’s play in China and the United States, from the material conditions enjoyed by children in China and the United States, possession of toys, playing the form of the game point of view, almost no difference can be seen; but a thin one The difference is great, the biggest difference may lie in: one is “how much time to play”; the other is “how to play.” What Chinese children play, how to play, rarely get rid of parents, teachers control, what can play, what can not play, play to what extent, play to what time, there is a clear rule. And the American children have a more relaxed and free growing environment, playing more like “playing” and playing more like a thing, saying in Chinese: “I’m playing out of circles.” I can not help but think of it here The last time I went to play with my daughter. That day, my husband and I took the tools of the younger sister Mei Mei, who was less than three years old, to go to the park to play sand. Although there are many adults in the park, the children are walking, but the huge sand pit is empty. Daughter can not wait to take off his shoes, barefoot barefoot, ran into the bunker, playing while shouting: “Mom Come, we play together!” I heard my daughter shouted merrily, I quickly take off Footwear, crazy play with her. I first filled the sand with a paper cup and then dived it down into a small, cylindrical sandcastle. Mei Mei see, rushing to do sandcastle, but she did two unsuccessful, do a good job in the sandbox soon collapsed in half.