经常会有妈妈留言给问我类似的这样问题:孩子看到别人有什么,自己也要什么,劝也劝不住,不买就大哭大闹,撒泼打滚也是常有的事。家长觉得很为难,一方面,害怕满足了孩子,攀比心会愈发严重,今后更加不可控制;另一方面,物质水平和生活条件其实是能够满足孩子的,又心疼孩子,觉得想就买吧,也不是什么大不了的事。两个小人儿在心里打架,谁也说服不了谁,所以我就想写一篇与此相关相关的文字—— I often have a mother message to ask me a similar question: children see what others have, what they want, advised not persuade, do not buy crying, splashing is also commonplace. Parents feel very embarrassed, on the one hand, afraid to meet the children, comparisons will be more and more serious, in the future more out of control; on the other hand, material level and living conditions are actually able to meet children, but also distressed children, think you want to buy it , Is not a big deal either. Two little children fight in the heart, who can not convince anyone, so I would like to write a related text related to this -