整整16年来,美国治疗学专家芭芭拉·德·安杰莉丝一直在研究家庭关系问题,并为数千对夫妻当过顾问。下面,是她对于“如何建立和谐的夫妻关系——女方应该了解的男性ABC”的几点分析。一、当男子心中不快时,他不喜欢谈论它,却常常求助于性。不少丈夫有过这样的经历:当他们感到苦恼、失望、无助、惧怕时,常常将性爱作为表达与解决自己的困惑的一种形式。 For the past 16 years, Barbara de Angelis, a therapist in the United States, has been studying family relations and advising thousands of couples. The following is her analysis of how to establish a harmonious relationship between husband and wife - male ABC that women should know. First, when a man is unhappy, he does not like to talk about it, but often resorts to sex. Many husbands have had the experience that when they feel distressed, disappointed, helpless, afraid, they often use sex as a form of expression and solution to their own confusion.