“面子”即情面,它在日常生活和人际交往中有着十分微妙的作用。美国汉学家费正清认为:“面子是一种社会性的东西,个人的尊严将从适合的行为及社会赞许中获得。”“丢面子”则是由于没能遵守社会行为准则,以致于没有得到别人的称许或认可。因此,正确对待“面子”,能使人讲自尊 “Face” is a feeling that plays a very delicate role in daily life and interpersonal communication. Fei Zhengqing, a sinologist in the United States, thinks: “Face is a social thing, and personal dignity will be obtained from appropriate behavior and social approval.” “Loss of face” is due to failing to comply with social norms of conduct so as not to get others Commendable or recognized. Therefore, the correct treatment of “face” can make people speak self-esteem