一、以他人为中心这种情绪类型的女性,情绪指数的变化几乎完全受制于他人,对自己的情绪无任何选择性。在日常生活中表现为:当别人恭维之时,变得洋洋得意;当无人吹捧时,显得无精打采;当受到别人善意的批评时,会感到自我受到了否定,从而变得悲观、自卑。这种机械地对待别人态度的方式是不少女性的弱点,也是一些骗子利用女性弱点的一个绝招,因而不少女性都无法抵御具有“绅士风度”的男人的称赞。要调节这种情绪,一是培养洞察他人动机的能力,二要学会如何 First, the other as the center of this type of emotional women, the emotional index changes almost entirely controlled by others, their emotions without any selectivity. In everyday life, when people compliment, they become complacent; when listless, they are listless; and when they are cautiously criticized by others, they feel self-denied and become pessimistic and inferior. This way of mechanically treating others’ attitudes is not only the weakness of many women, but also a trick used by some crooks to exploit the weakness of women. Therefore, many women are not able to resist the praises of men with “gentlemanly manner.” To adjust this emotion, one is to cultivate the ability to understand the motivation of others, and the second is to learn how to do it