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多年前,曾向不同年龄段的中小学生了解:在家和学校,你最烦心的话有哪些?你烦心的事有哪些?学生的回答五花八门,因为各人的体验不一样,对世事的认识水平与角度有差别,然而结果还是让我大开眼界。多数学生说,在家里,虽然说话可以随便一些,父母有些话还是会伤到自己,而且随着不断重复,有些话刻骨铭心:“你看人家某某某,上学期班上第八名,这一回考试一下子跳到第二名了!”“好吃吧?考上××中学,天天有鸡吃!”“你要好好读书,爸爸妈妈今后的生活就全靠你了……”
Many years ago, I had learned from primary and secondary school students of different ages: what are the things you are most worried about at home and in school, what are the things you are worried about? The students’ answers vary greatly because each person’s experience is different, There are differences in perspective, however, but the result still gives me an eye-opener. Most students said that while speaking at home can be casual, some parents will hurt themselves, and with repeated repetition, some words unforgettable: “You see a certain number of people, the eighth term of last semester, which Once the exam jump to the second place! ”“ Delicious? Get admitted to XX middle school, every day there are chickens to eat! ”“ You have to study hard, Mom and Dad’s future life depends on you ... ... ”