【正解】指用道德公正的眼光看待与别人的仇恨。出自《论语·宪问》:“或曰:‘以德报怨,何如?’子曰:‘何以报德?以直报怨,以德报德。’”【典故】一次,孔子的弟子或问:“别人欺负了我,我不怨他,还用恩惠去感化他,怎么样?”孔子说:“你不记仇这很好,可别人用什么来报答你的恩惠呢?别人欺负你时,你应该用正义去威慑他;别人对你好时,你也应该对别人好。”【演变】从或与孔子的对话中,我们可以看出,孔子不是教导大家做一个好孩子, Positive solution means to view hatred with others in a moral and fair manner. From the “Analects of Confucius Constitution”: “or said:” to complain, what? “Confucius said:” Why return to Germany? To complain directly to Germany to Germany. “[Allusions] Confucius’s disciples or ask: ”People bully me, I do not blame him, but also with grace to affect him, how?“ ”Confucius said: “ You do not hold back this good, but what other people can use to repay your blessings? Others bully you You should use justice to deter him; when others are good to you, you should also be good to others. ”[Evolution] From or in conversation with Confucius, we can see that Confucius did not teach you to be a good boy,