请为人父母者无论如何记住,即使婚姻不幸亮起红灯时——你可以离掉你的配偶,但你永远不能离掉你的小孩。父母最好不要当着孩子的面发生口角。夫妻吵架时,千万不要以离婚来要挟对方。否则,虽然大人吵后雨过天晴,但传到孩子的耳里,他会害怕哪一天父母真的会分离,而使心中的阴霾无法散去。在管教上,夫妻双方偶尔因意见不同而发生争吵时,绝不能把气发泄在孩子身上:“都是你,害得妈妈跟爸 Parents, no matter how, remember that even when marriage lights up in red - you can leave your spouse, but you can never leave your child behind. Parents are best not to spat in front of their children. When a couple quarrel, do not blackmail each other to divorce each other. Otherwise, although the adults after the rain had passed the storm, but spread to the child’s ears, he would be afraid of one day parents will really separate, leaving the haze can not be dispersed. In discipline, both spouses occasionally due to different opinions and quarrels, must not vent their children: "are you, detrimental to Mom and Dad