“姑娘啊,一定要交两三个要好的男性朋友,给自己留下退路,狡兔三窟啊。”老人对我说。跟老人交往,大概可算作我的一个性格特点。我似乎天性生就对他们抱有极度的好奇。跟老人交往跟读书还不一样,除了可以读出文字、思想,更有一种难得表述的“通感”。甚至不在于我是否“懂”了,是否“理解”他们说出的话。一张皱纹纵横的脸,一头洁白如雪的银发,往那儿一摆,就像是一尊充满魔力的磁石。 “Girl, ah, we must pay two or three good male friends, leave yourself a retreat, crouching three caves ah.” The old man said to me. Contact with the elderly, probably be regarded as one of my personality traits. I seem to be extremely curious about their nature. Communication with the elderly is not the same with reading, in addition to reading text, ideas, but also a rare expression of “synaesthesia.” It does not even matter whether I “understand” or “understand” what they say. A wrinkled vertical and horizontal face, a white snow-like silver hair, swinging there, is like a magical magnet.