在养孩子过程中,有时我们之所以焦虑,是因为我们急躁。十年树木,百年树人,这从理论上讲没有人反对。但在现实生活中,家长往往喜欢看到立竿见影的效果。比如告诉孩子不要光脚在地上跑他就得立即穿上鞋,告诉孩子不要打小朋友他从此就再不打架,给三年级小学生看了几本书就希望他写出很 In the process of raising children, sometimes we are anxious because we are impatient. Ten years of trees, Centennial tree, which in theory no one opposed. But in real life, parents often like to see immediate results. Such as telling the child not to run barefoot on the ground he immediately have to wear shoes, tell the children do not fight children he never fight again, read a few books for third graders hope he would write very