编辑同志:您好!我今年75岁,机关退休干部,养老金4000多元。一年前老伴儿因病去世,我想再找个老伴儿,儿女们也理解。其实自从老伴儿走后,给我介绍对象的就没断。这其中有小我20岁的,有长相好些的;还有脾气好,但长相一般的;有家务活干得好,但经济负担较重的。一来二去,我竟然有些挑花了眼。您说我究竟怎么选才能保证晚年生活幸福呢?山东读者老尹 Edit comrades: Hello! I am 75 years old this year, retired cadres organs, pension 4000 yuan. A year ago, his wife died of illness, I want to find a partner children, children also understand. In fact, since my wife went away, I did not introduce the object. Among them, there are 20-year-old man who looks better; there are good temper, but looks like a general housework doing a good job, but the economic burden heavier. One by one to go, I actually had some flowers took the eye. How do you say how I choose to ensure the happiness of later years life? Old readers in Shandong