教师或家长教育学生，最常说的话莫过于“听话”二字。如“要听老师的话”，“听话才是好孩子”，“不听话就不是好学生”等。久而久之，“听话”便成了好学生、好孩子的代名词。毋庸置疑，要求学生听话并非有错。然而，在实施素质教育的今天，若片面强调学生听话，则会影响一些学生的健 Teachers or parents educate students, the most often said than “obedient ” word. Such as “to listen to the teacher's words ”, “obedient is good boy ”, “not obey is not a good student ” and so on. As time passes, “obedient ” has become a good student, good boy synonymous. Undoubtedly, asking students to obey is not wrong. However, today in the implementation of quality education, if one-sided emphasis on student obedience, it will affect the health of some students