如果你花了时间与心思关心朋友,却并未让他们感谢你,那就表示,你在某些关心技巧上出错了。“多大点事,让你难过成这样啊?”让人最受伤的是,你鄙视他的情绪。你的关心重点应该是怎样把他从悲伤情绪中解救出来。试试这样说:这事的确让人不好受,但是,我们要乐观一点往好的方面想。“要是我碰到你这样的事,也不知道怎么办才好。”要理解他的困境,给他正能量,帮他以 If you take the time to focus on your friends, but did not let them thank you, it means that you are wrong in some care skills. “What a pompous thing to make you sad ah? ” The most hurt is that you despise his emotions. Your concern should be how to save him from sadness. Try this: This is a really bad thing, but let’s be optimistic about the good side. “If I encounter such a thing, I do not know what to do. ” To understand his predicament, to give him positive energy, to help him